Winter is a strange season as it bridges the gap between the year’s polar opposites. While spring, summer and autumn all have a unique flavour that is usually predictable from beginning to end, winter embraces many emotions and characters. It is the only season where the mood and mindset change dramatically in the middle. At the beginning, the warmth, hope and joy of Christmas are all-consuming and they wrap up the year, offering time to reflect on the highs and lows of the past 12 months. But the season’s end welcomes in a New Year which, although cold and often marked by post-Christmas blues, is also ripe with possibility. For me, January often ends up as a strange month without any discernable purpose, so if you’re like me, here are some ways to stay in the moment through the whole of this coming winter.
Food & Drink: Toffee nut latte with chocolate hazelnut loaf
Bake:Snickerdoodles & Pflaumenkuchen
Places to visit: Germany
Play in the snow (if we get any!)
Do some Christmas crafts – most of mine involve Cinnamon sticks!
Watch lots of movies: The Holiday, Miracle on 34th Street, Muppet’s Christmas Carol, It’s a Wonderful Life, Love Actually
Experience a Christmas market – Köln Weihnachtsmarkt is just perfect
Buy a calendar for the New Year
Start on some New Year goals – make plans for the year, book tickets to shows and search out new restaurants
Go to a museum – it’s low season in January so much quieter and you can take your time
Go to coffee shops and watch the world go by
Have a long hot bath with candles and a good book
Prepare for spring – get ahead of the game with a pre-spring clearout
Make the most of the slower pace of life by sipping wine (or, my preference, G&T) late into the night with friends, dreaming about what the year ahead might bring
Winter may be the odd season out, but it can still bring joy if you live it in the moment!
As predicted, October wasn’t forthcoming with time off. But it was productive enough that, once work calms down, the next couple of months may be less frantic. I recognise that I constantly write about being busy and hoping for a little time to pause and recover but my life seems to run in peaks and troughs of busy. I do love the energy and cyclical nature of this type of life. Just like I love the familiarity and capricious character of the seasons. Let’s see if October afforded the meeting of some goals in there somewhere too…
Go for Autumn walks in new places. We spent some time at our favourite national trust site this month and the wedding was at a beautiful autumnal estate but I didn’t get as many walks as I wanted. There was just so much planned! We’ve learned our lesson and blocked out lots of weekends next October already!
Get the flat painted (except maybe the bedrooms) and clean again! We even managed the bedrooms! It feels so good to have a home that is ‘us’. We hadn’t even realised how much we’d settled for a half way house between owning our own place but accepting wall colours, picture hook positions, kitchen styles and even furniture to some extent as though we were renting. It’s finally ours!
Be in the moment for birthdays. This we did and I was thankful for it. Family and friends are good for the soul.
Get on top of work. I’ll have two plane journeys and some evenings to plan. I want to stop feeling like I only have time to react and start stealing back some time to be pro-active. I really want this to be under control by Christmas. The peak will be over so I want to push forward to gain back some work/life balance. To do that, I need to plan.
Finish my book. It’s fairly easy going and should let my brain switch off a bit. It will also hopefully help me feel like I have a little more time to myself.
Bake. Simple goal. Just one thing. I love cake. If I can push through the work demands I should have time for this simple pleasure!
Christmas will soon be here and I want to prepare wisely so that we can enjoy every moment. That means starting now to get rid of the demands and the headaches and free up some space for life.
October was a busy month. Work will regain a slower pace at the end of November but until then it’s full steam ahead. Somehow in between all of that, we finished the flat. Everything is painted. Furniture is bought and mostly all arrived and order has finally been restored to this household. After three years of faff, it feels SO good to look forward to coming home and for our home to be a place of refuge and relaxation again. I hope I never underestimate the importance of having a home to hide in and share with others.
We also had lunch at the Ritz, saw some unbelievable fireworks and celebrated a wedding and three birthdays. When I stop for a moment and consider all the activity of the past few weeks, it amazes me just how much can be crammed into one month. I’m looking forward to something a little less hectic soon!