July reflections / August hopes

July reflections August hopesWhen I sat down to write this, I only planned to reflect on the goals I set for July. August was already looking busy and I wasn’t sure there were things I wanted to achieve. As I thought about it though, ideas crept through and I realised there are plenty of things I want to do or change in August! Why that surprises me, as a person who loves to set goals and try to improve how I live in the moment and be present in the present, I don’t know, but it did.

If I start with the 6 month ambition: creating a new meal without a recipe every month – we actually did this! Summer is particularly conducive to this aim as almost every meal is a guess as to how it will turn out because we’re just throwing salads together with whatever we have in the fridge. It was fun though – every salad turned out differently! Will probably have to be more intentional about doing this in August but it seems like a fun date night activity so I hope we’ll get a chance to continue this aim this month!

>Reflections<

Stargaze. Not this month, but we’ve put in place ways of doing this in August!! Our summer staycation accommodation has a skylight in the roof above the bed so you can watch the stars as you go to sleep. It’s also in the middle of nowhere so I’m hoping for some great stargazing!

Read the Bible in German more. ‘More’ seemed so vague when I wrote this a few weeks ago but ‘more’ is definitely what I have achieved. By putting my German Bible next to my bed, I’ve read it almost every night this month and it’s been great not only for keeping my mind in German mode but also for the words to come back to life, reading them in a different language and reminding me of what their true meaning and purpose is.

Re-visit my 2015 year aims. Haven’t actually managed this properly yet. I’ll put it on my August aims and hope I get the chance to do this while we’re on holiday and I actually find time to think!

Go to the cinema twice. Jurassic World and Theory of Everything! The latter we even saw at an outdoor cinema which was especially fun. The Theory of Everything is an absolutely superb movie – I would thoroughly recommend it! Hoping this continues next month as we now have 2 for 1 cinema deals and I really want to see Inside Out!

Go to a National Trust site. We managed this without trying in the end by going to Rhossili – voted the best beach in Britain! It is absolutely huge when the tide is out and we had such a wonderful afternoon there with friends.

>Hopes<

Stargaze and re-visit my 2015 year aims. Carrying these over from July…

Take time off! We’ve booked just over a week off work over my birthday to take some much needed time away. It’ll be my first ever staycation and I’m actually really looking forward to it!

Go on Facebook less. Facebook is less of an addiction and more of a habit. My fingers automatically open the app on my phone and I barely read what is in front of me before closing it again. All that it is serving to do at the moment is distract me and fill my mind with other people’s opinions and lives, drawing me away from my own. It is cluttering my mind and August is going to be all about clearing my mind, so I can do with less of the social media influence!

Go on more post-dinner walks. The evenings are already starting to get shorter and my favourite time of day in the summer is dusk so I want to cherish it while it’s still here!

Sort out my wardrobe. Whether that’s buying new clothes, getting rid of existing clothes or starting to save some money so that I can really fill my wardrobe only with clothes that fit me well, something needs to change so that I am more comfortable when I get dressed in the morning!

Pamper myself. I hope August will give me space to clear my thoughts and, as it’s also my birthday month, I figured I may as well give my body some TLC as well. I hope a massage, pedicure and haircut might be on the cards…

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July – Indulging Summer

P1030196aFor the first time in many years, we have had consistently good weather in England. Most days can be relied upon to produce a climate that is suitable for shorts and a T-shirt and it has been wonderful that as a result, we’ve really been able to make the most of this stereotypically warm season. We’ve had many BBQs late into the evening, sipped cider outside a pub on a Sunday afternoon, delighted in salads that satisfy our dwindling summer hunger, sat on a beach in Wales and been slightly sunburnt a couple of times (not the highlight… we do try to be careful!), we have lain on rugs under fleece blankets at an outdoor cinema and we have generally made the most of what the long evenings have offered. Somewhere in amongst all the summer activities we also got to meet our friend’s kitten for the first time – so cute!!

Cider, outdoor cinema, BBQs and sitting outside, particularly in the evening, are great ways of genuinely feeling like time isn’t slipping by. By making the most of these opportunities I feel like, for the first time in a long time, I have really enjoyed this summer season at home. It wasn’t forced and I’m already wondering how I can make sure I do the same next year. Mid-week BBQs, sipping cider, going to an outdoor cinema, trying lots of new salads and generally seeing friends in the long evenings are such a good place to start.

July hopes

July Hopes 2015

It’s about time I set some goals again. The last time I set myself any semblance of an aim was in May 2014 followed by some reflections in June and a hope that I would be able to enjoy summer and see where it led. Summer didn’t lead anywhere good in 2014 and neither did the months that followed but it’s been exactly one year since then. How fitting that now is the time when I’m ready to get back into the business of looking forward.

>Hopes<

Stargaze. We’ve recently bought a GoPro and my husband is experimenting with slow motion, time lapse and short clips. One evening he set a short time lapse and I watched as the stars emerged from behind clouds and rose in the sky as the sun set. I want to do more of this while the evenings are still warm enough to enjoy being outside. If there’s any chance of me looking through a telescope, even better!

Read the Bible in German more. I’ve mentioned many times how important my German heritage is to me because of my grandparents and how their faith and character inspired me. Reading my Bible in German connects me even more to the meaning of the words as I associate them with the man who used to read them to me and lived them until his last breath. I realise ‘more’ is vague as even once would be more than I am reading it in German now but I hope it will be the start of a habit of reading the Bible in this lovely language.

Re-visit my 2015 year aims. It’s half way through the year. About time I checked in to see where I’m at compared to where I set out to be at the start of January.

Go to the cinema twice. Shouldn’t be hard, there are enough movies I want to see at the moment!

Go to a National Trust site. Our membership runs out in September so we want to make the most of it before then!

>6 month ambitions<

Why not look a little further ahead? We’re six months through twelve, a perfect time to reassess and challenge myself to something new. The one thing I’d really like to try is to make a meal every month from now until Christmas, without a recipe. My husband is great at this so I intend to make it a joint goal and I’m already looking forward to it. We shop, we find ingredients we enjoy and we make something that is ours. Fun for a date night activity and a great kitchen venture as soon as our new kitchen arrives in two weeks!